Tuesday, November 11, 2008
elsewhere on why??(AND IF YOUR READING THIS PLEASE DONT GET MAD)
WHY? is the question every teenager asks they think every thing that happens is a punishment for something they did wrong maybe from some sort of higher being or something well.....im fifteen and trust me ive totally been in that been there done that situation i TRY so hard to make a bad situation go good no one could imagine how much i get in trouble all the way from telling someone somthing good about another person when that person is shy all the way to sending notes to someone when their busy or telling my brother to shutup while he or me are the phone with someone i mean why does a teenager get in trouble so much from a person who claims not to be the "authorotive figure" but im coming to an end to this problem for all teenagers ALL OVER THE WORLD to help show adults that although they claim not to be the authorotive figure they are because they are still YELLING at YOU........ILL HAVE AN ANSWER JUST AS SOON AS I DO SOME RESEARCH SO LEAVE YOUR COMMENTS AND TELL ALL YOUR FRIENDS TO LEAVE COMMENTS ON WHAT THEY THINK WE TEENS/KIDS SHOULD DO ASK QUESTIONS AND LEAVE ANSWERS/ADVICE FOR OTHER TEENS JUST LIKE YOU AND ME
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Ashley,
Constantly grabbing attention is never a good thing ... people who grab for attention are always let down. because they are always disappointed. And even if they do somehow get the attention they seek, it only makes them hungry for more. Truth is ... people don't like attention hogs. Especially shy people ... if the attention hog ends up drawing attention to them as well.
i love you, but as i have told you before ... i don't play games.
i wish to be nothing but a friend to you ... but you have to be willing to try to stop hogging all my attention, especially in front of other people. i can't help but to resist when you do that, and you will not accomplish what you desire with that behavior.
you want to have true friends? be a true friend. this means being honest, being fair, and sometimes ... backing off to let the other person breathe. you want to have true friends? never talk bad about them to other people, this is just common sense. it will only ever cause hurt ... but especially between friends.
Most of all ... if you want true friends ... you must surrender yourself to being real. This is the only way you will ever really be internally happy. Be real with God. Be real with yourself. Then you can be real with people ... and make (and keep) some true friends.
Hurting someones feelings ... and being reacted to in turn ... has nothing to do with authority. Respect isn't taken or given ... it is earned. Demanding respect is the sure fire way to never get it truly.
But many people will disagree with me ...
just be you ... be real ...
you may yet be too young to understand. (yeah i know you hate it when people tell you that) then prove them wrong ... instead of being an attention hog. Focus on yourself ...
grow yourself
after all ... it's only you who has to live in your own skin, no one else.
how you treat other people ... will come back to you.
'This is the first command with a promise, Love the Lord your God with your whole heart soul and mind, and your neighbor as yourself. On this all the law hangs and the prophets.'
i love you ~Aub
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